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Setbacks, Skunks, and Scotland (2 Min Read) | Vol. 173
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“Being challenged in life is inevitable. Being defeated is optional.” – Roger Crawford Setbacks, Skunks, and Scotland My bag ditched me in Heathrow during our summer trip to Scotland. British Airways eventually located it, but their ground game was lacking. For a week, I lived out of a shopping bag wearing outlet store roulette. Using my AirTag, we played detective and traced the wayward luggage to a warehouse in Glasgow—where we found it the day before we left Scotland. I'll never take fresh socks for granted again. Last month, a skunk sprayed our dog. Three times. Each incident earned Taco a full "spa day" in our backyard—a nose-pinching, hour-long ordeal. The point? Setbacks are unavoidable. Whether they set us back depends on us. I can be meticulous. I had thoughtfully packed my favorite fall clothes for Scotland. I get few opportunities to wear sweaters and flannels in Texas. Losing it was genuinely disappointing. Hunting for replacement outfits in unfamiliar stores was inconvenient. I wanted to rant and stew. But the cost of indulging that frustration? Potentially ruining great memories with my family. I chose fun instead. The great scotch helped. Same with Pepé Le Pew. I cannot overstate that there is never a convenient time to de-skunk your dog. I was late for work. I washed loads of towels. The house still smells like sulfur when it rains. But why let one unpleasant hour ruin a day? It's not worth it. So, we soldiered on. Next time an unexpected unpleasantness ambushes you, remember the tradeoff. Most setbacks are just speed bumps. They aren't worth getting into a lather over—even if you're literally lathering a stinky pup. One question to ponder in your thinking time: If I reframe my biggest current frustration as a speed bump instead of a roadblock, how would my response change? Make an Impact! Not subscribed? Become a Twenty Percenter here. |
Jay Papasan
Every Friday, I share concise, actionable insights for growing your business, optimizing your time, and expanding your mindset. Co-author of multiple million-copy bestsellers.
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