June 13, 2025 | Read Online “In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.”
— Coco Chanel
The Red Sneakers Effect: How Strategic Nonconformity Builds Your Personal Brand When Jenny Wood arrived for her interview on The ONE Thing podcast, she sported a pair of dazzling sneakers. “I love your shoes,” I blurted, even though I’m not really a shoe person. They were just remarkable without being obnoxious. Jenny embodies one of the traits she writes about in Wild Courage –Weird. It’s having the courage to be authentic and stand out from the crowd. Her kicks reflect that she practices what she preaches. And the Red Sneaker Effect. In 2014, Harvard Business School researchers gave this phenomenon a name after studying how people perceive deliberate rule-breaking. They found that when someone intentionally violates dress codes or social norms—like wearing red sneakers to a black-tie event—observers often assume they have higher status and competence. Think about it. If someone is confident enough to break the rules, they must be successful enough to get away with it. You can quickly think of dozens of examples:
The Red Sneaker Effect is a step beyond having a personal style. It’s like a logo for your personal brand. It’s worth asking, what are my red sneakers? A few caveats.
Finally, nonconformity works best when it aligns with your authentic self and is backed by credibility. If it feels performative, it erodes trust. And may generate memes. Looking at you, every guru posting shirtless gym selfies with motivational captions. One question to ponder in your thinking time: What authentic part of yourself are you hiding behind "professional" expectations? Make an Impact! Not subscribed? Become a Twenty Percenter here. |
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